Monday, June 1, 2009

Three

Dear Carter,

Today is your 3rd birthday. You are growing up so fast! It seems that every day you learn something new and amazing. You are so giving and love to be around people. You do not, however, like to share your beloved ride on tractor. We are working on that.

We had been doing really well on potty training, in fact, you were pretty much home free on the "number 1" part...........that is until last week. You had gone all by yourself, because after all, you must do everything "ALL BY MYSELF" when I heard the toilet lid slam pretty hard I just assumed you were finished. Until you said, "Mom?" I asked if you were okay and you told me "Mom, I snapped my pee pee with the potty." .....and my goodness did you ever! But you didn't cry one bit. Most grown men would have probably been curled up on the floor after that, but not you!

You also had a bit of an accident with the candles on your cake last week. I didn't even realize you'd burned yourself until I was looking at the pictures and asked you about it. I felt pretty bad about it after seeing the pictures, your face looked like it hurt pretty bad......but again, you recovered quick and blew the candle right out! You are one tough little boy!

You are such a giving little boy too, I'm so proud of that. Early yesterday morning we made a grocery store run to get some food to take to the funeral home. Some of your bestest buds, Jacob (15) and Elijah (14) grandmother passed away. I had told you about it, because after being at their house so many times I knew you'd remember her....and you did! Then you asked me if Jacob & "Lijah" were sad. Then you insisted that we take some popcicles to their house......right then (it was 6:00 AM) because "some popcicles will make them feel better, Mom" I told you it was kind of early for popcicles, but maybe we could take them breakfast? You were SO up for that, and made it your mission to see that I didn't forget. I know their dad was happy that we didn't make it to their house until almost 7 AM. (thank goodness he was up and heard us drive up! however, I had it in a cooler and was going to leave it, then call them a little later) I don't know any other 3 year old that would have even thought about trying to make them feel better. You are so sweet, Carter.

It's my prayer that you are always that considerate of others.

I look so forward to seeing what this year will bring. You are so sweet and loving with Lilah. You will become a big brother again. You are already so excited about that!.....In fact, today in the car you told me you wanted 5 more babies. I persuaded you that it would be a great idea to talk to Aunt Crystal about that little request!

I love you so much Carter! I could never have dreamed that any one human being could bring such joy to my life, and I thank God for blessing us with you.

Love,

Mom


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a master of the Wii....at only threeee!

9 comments:

Tonja said...

What a sweet post! As a mom of 3 boys, I can tell you they only get sweeter...well...that's not the whole truth. Actually at times you will even wonder if you ever could have birthed tht child!!! But, that sweet little grin can overcome most serious offenses.

So wise of you to train your boy to think of others as you obviously have. Boys can be just as kind and considerate of others as girls...and it will certainly serve them well in years to come.

Enjoy that sweet boy!

Mindy said...

So sweet!!! Happy birthday Carter

Anonymous said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY CARTER!

Love,
Uncle Clay, Aunt Tammy, Matthew, and Rachel

Leigh Anne said...

Happy Birthday Carter! I remember that day well!
Lilah really wants that blue squeeze it drink! LOL

Elizabeth Hopper said...

Happy Birthday Carter!!
Love,
Beth, Chandler, and Maddie

Mrs. Watkins said...

Im a day late at reading this, so Happy Birthday Yesterday, sweet Carter!! I just love to watch you and Lilah at church, you are hilarious! I remember going to see you at the hospital when you were born. Adam was so happy to see you too, he was so glad that your sweet momma was blessed with a sweet baby! Now three years later.. # 3 is on the way!! You are a great big brother to Lilah and I know Baby 3 will love you too!

Deedra- I love you dearly! Your baby boy wouldn't be soo sweet without such a sweet momma!

Lori said...

Happy Birthday Carter. Three is such a fun age!!

Lisa @ The Preacher's Wife said...

What a precious baby... I want you to know we all sang your praises at the funeral home for ALL that you did to make The Smith's Feel Better. The Pike family is a popsicle. :))

Anonymous said...

What a beautiful letter. One son turned 23 today and another turned 11 a few days ago. Each age is so precious. Your letter reminded me of all the things I miss.